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Referential Comparisons, Relational Comparisons, and Exchange Orientation: Their Relation to Marital Satisfaction

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Employing a sample of 214 individuals, this study showed that most individuals felt the input/outcome ratio in their marital relationship was better than that of most same-sex others (referential comparisons) but equal to that of their spouse (relational comparisons). Perceptions of superiority in referential comparisons and of equity in relational comparisons were accompanied by the highest level of marital satisfaction. However, further analyses showed that only for individuals high in exchange orientation was equity related to marital satisfaction and that individuals low in exchange orientation were, overall, more satisfied with their relationship. Women were more deprived and less satisfied, especially when they were high in exchange orientation. The results are related to the controversy surrounding the application of equity theory to close relationships. In addition, the cognitive mechanisms that help individuals maintain a positive view of their marital relationship are considered.
... Whereas Murstein et al. (1977) and Milardo and Murstein (1979) found indeed some evidence for a main effect of exchange orientation on dissatisfaction in relationships, Buunk and VanYperen (1991) reasoned that such an orientation would also have a moderator effect. They developed the hypothesis that for individuals high exchange orientation, equity would be more important than for individuals low in such an orientation and would thus be accompanied with more dissatisfaction than for individuals low in exchange orientation. ...
... Furthermore, they experienced less negative affect overall compared with individuals high in exchange orientation. These findings are similar to the findings of Buunk and VanYperen (1991) with regard to marital relationships. This similarity is the more noteworthy because in the present study the dependent variable was negative affect at work over the past month, whereas in the study of Buunk and VanYperen marital satisfaction was the dependent variable. ...
... In any event, it would be premature to conclude from the negative correlation between communal and exchange orientation that these orientations are just opposite poles of the same continuum. The present research as well as earlier studies by Buunk and VanYperen (1991) and VanYperen and Buunk (1991) suggest a number of differences between the two orientations. First, a high exchange orientation seems to be related to a low level of well-being, that is, a low marital satisfaction or a high degree of negative affect at work, whereas this does not seem to be true for a low communal orientation. ...
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Perceived reciprocity regarding support in relationships at work was examined among employees of a psychiatric hospital (Study 1) and in a study of employees of the Dutch National Railway Company (Study 2). Relationships with colleagues were more often perceived as reciprocal than relationships with superiors, and in relationships with superiors individuals more often felt overbenefited. Lack of reciprocity—being underbenefited or being overbenefited—was in general associated with negative affect, and these effects were independent of the effect of perceived job stress. In Study 2 it was also found that these effects were moderated by the individual-differences variables exchange orientation (the general expectation of immediate reciprocity) and communal orientation (a positive regard for the needs and feelings of others).
... Rusbult, 1983;Rusbult & Van Lange, 1996). (Adams, 1965), however the greatest distress appears to be experienced by the under benefited individual (Buunk & Van Yperen, 1991;Lane & Messe, 1971 CL is "the standard against which the member evaluates the "attractiveness" of the relationship or how satisfactory it is" (Thibaut & Kelley, 1959, p. 21). This is an individual standard we all have which is shaped by factors such as past relationships and perceptions of other people's relationships. ...
... Equity theory (Adams, 1965) proposes that individuals expect a fair distribution of outcomes in a relationship based on what each have inputted into the relationship. Inequity, in terms of either receiving less than the outcomes deserved, or in terms of taking more outcomes than deserved, results in distress (Adams, 1965;Buunk & Van Yperen, 1991;Lane & Messe, 1971). A practical illustration of the effects of inequity can be seen in the experience of intimate partners of cancer patients and patients with multiple sclerosis. ...
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p>In what circumstances do individual sacrifice direct self-interest for the good of their partner or their relationship? The research presented in this thesis used interdependence theory (Kelley & Thibaut, 1978; Thibaut & Kelley, 1959) as a theoretical framework for examining willingness to sacrifice in intimate relationship dilemmas. Two person specific variables, commitment and personal relationship needs, were examined alongside three situation specific variables, the cost of sacrificing, partners’ relationship needs, and partners’ strategy. The research had a varied methodological base consisting of two laboratory-based studies (outcome matrices represented relationship dilemmas), a scenario based paradigm, and a recall paradigm. The situation specific variables revealed tendencies for individuals to strive to maximise personal outcomes rather than joint outcomes. Individuals were consistently found to sacrifice less in dilemmas involving a high level costs and rewards, exhibited less sacrifice with a selfish partner as opposed to a sacrificial partner, and less sacrifice when paired with a partner who was described as being high in relationship needs. However, the person specific variables demonstrated factors within intimate relationships that may restrict this pursuit of self-interest. In line with previous research (e.g. Van Lange, Agnew, Harinck & Steemers, 1997) a positive relationship was found between commitment and willingness to sacrifice. However the current research demonstrated that this relationship is only found in dilemmas that involve a high level of costs and rewards (e.g. moving home). When the costs and rewards involved are low (e.g. washing up), individuals classified as low in commitment exhibit similar levels, or sometimes even greater sacrifice, than individuals classified as high in commitment. It was demonstrated that individuals who are highly committed to their relationship hold more dyad-focused motives (e.g. concern for partner’s well-being and needs) than less committed individuals.</p
... The discrepancy noted in previous research between self-estimated intelligence and tested intelligence [Holling and Preckel 2005] provides context for our results. This notion aligns with Buunk and Van Yperen [Buunk and Van Yperen 1991], suggesting people tend to have overly positive views of their abilities, like intelligence [Yamada et al. 2013], known as Illusory Superiority. This bias could lead participants to perceive virtual characters' intelligence as lower compared to themselves, irrespective of actual capabilities. ...
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... A related bias is termed the illusion of superiority. In this case people understand the risks, but believe that their own outcome will be far better than that of the average patient (Buunk and Van Yperen, 1991). Patients may also suffer from misattribution bias, where they confound their current health state with their long-term prognosis, even if the two are unrelated (Nisbett and Wilson, 1977). ...
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... Jednocześnie tzw. złudzenie ponadprzeciętności (określenie użyte po raz pierwszy przez Vana Yperena i B.P. Buunka w 1991 roku [Buunk, Van Yperen, 1991]) kojarzy się z kluczowym słowem definicji oceny, które musi mieć jakiś układ odniesienia [Ludwiczyński, 2006, s. 275], trudny do stosowania wobec nierespektujących go osób z wysokim poziomem narcyzmu. Celem niniejszych rozważań jest:  po pierwsze, przeprowadzenie studium literatury przedmiotu pod kątem identyfikacji objaśnień sytuacji, które mogą występować przy ocenianiu narcystycznych osób i przez nie,  po drugie, identyfikacja w wybranym arkuszu oceny (prezentującym m.in. ...
... Jednocześnie tzw. złudzenie ponadprzeciętności (określenie użyte po raz pierwszy przez Vana Yperena i B.P. Buunka w 1991 roku [Buunk, Van Yperen, 1991]) kojarzy się z kluczowym słowem definicji oceny, które musi mieć jakiś układ odniesienia [Ludwiczyński, 2006, s. 275], trudny do stosowania wobec nierespektujących go osób z wysokim poziomem narcyzmu. Celem niniejszych rozważań jest:  po pierwsze, przeprowadzenie studium literatury przedmiotu pod kątem identyfikacji objaśnień sytuacji, które mogą występować przy ocenianiu narcystycznych osób i przez nie,  po drugie, identyfikacja w wybranym arkuszu oceny (prezentującym m.in. ...
... Two very closely related biases are illusory superiority and the optimism bias (also known as unrealistic optimism). Illusory superiority is the tendency to believe that one has superior qualities and abilities compared to other people [40]. For example, a large majority of people believe their driving skills are above average [41,42]. ...
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