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Sexual Strategies Theory: An Evolutionary Perspective on Human Mating

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This article proposes a contextual-evolutionary theory of human mating strategies. Both men and women are hypothesized to have evolved distinct psychological mechanisms that underlie short-term and long-term strategies. Men and women confront different adaptive problems in short-term as opposed to long-term mating contexts. Consequently, different mate preferences become activated from their strategic repertoires. Nine key hypotheses and 22 predictions from Sexual Strategies Theory are outlined and tested empirically. Adaptive problems sensitive to context include sexual accessibility, fertility assessment, commitment seeking and avoidance, immediate and enduring resource procurement, paternity certainty, assessment of mate value, and parental investment. Discussion summarizes 6 additional sources of behavioral data, outlines adaptive problems common to both sexes, and suggests additional contexts likely to cause shifts in mating strategy.
... An important addition to reproductive strategies came when sexual strategies theory was developed in the early 1990s (Buss & Schmitt 1993.) Sexual strategies theory predicts that, given mutual partner choice, men and women will value quite similar characteristics in their romantic partners: intellect, resources, social status, and so on. ...
... Again, it is important to keep in mind that these sex differences are assumed to characterise both sameand opposite sex couples. (Buss & Schmitt 1993;Buss & Schmitt 2019.) Sexual strategies theory thus added a temporal dimension to reproductive strategies, in separating between long-term pair bonds as opposed to short-term matings. ...
... In a long-term relationship both men and women value trust, reliability, humour, and kindness in a partner. (Buss & Schmitt 1993;Gangestad & Simpson 2000;Schmitt et al. 2001;. Some gender differences appear to persist also in preferences for long-term partners. ...
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... The issue of mate preference has been explored extensively by evolutionary and social psychologists (Atari & Jamali, 2016;Bech-Sørensen & Pollet, 2016;Buss, 1987Buss, , 2008Buss & Schmitt, 1993;Feingold, 1992;G. J. Fletcher et al., 2004;March & Jonason, 2023;Todd et al., 2007;Zentner & Eagly, 2015). ...
... This mate preference literature is primarily concerned with sex differences and to what extent they are universal (i.e., cross-culturally consistent) based on ideas about signaling fecundity and fitness (Chang et al., 2011;Stone et al., 2007;Sugiyama, 2005;Thomas et al., 2020;Toro-Morn & Sprecher, 2003). There are indeed a number of theories in this area including Buss and Schmitt's (1993) sexual strategy theory, G. J. Fletcher et al. (2004) ideal standards model, and Li et al. (2013) mate preference priority model. While the research has mostly concerned heterosexual participants there has been a recent interest in comparing androphiles, gynephiles, and bisexuals sexual preferences (Kostic & Scofield, 2022). ...
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... Women's mate preferences for male mates are contingent upon factors that convey indirect (i.e., genetic) and direct benefits (i.e., resources) (Buss & Schmitt, 1993). Physical traits such as facial and body masculinity, and height, are cues that are used in the perception of physical attractiveness in mate choice Sell et al., 2017;Symons, 1995). ...
... Sociosexuality, or one's propensity to engage in uncommitted sexual encounters, has been used as a measure of short-term mating orientation. According to sexual strategies theory (Buss & Schmitt, 1993), women have faced the ancestral problem of finding a mate that displays good genes. One solution to the adaptive problem faced by women is to pursue a short-term mating strategy to incur the genetic benefits over pursuing a long-term investment. ...
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... Certain aspects of intimate relationships may have impacted the fitness of ancestral men and women differently. For instance, since men do not experience the burden of pregnancy, their reproductive success would have been positively linked to the number of women they had sexual access to (Buss & Schmitt, 1993). This suggests that monogamy might result in a more significant fitness loss for men compared to women. ...
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... Incels invoke that society is organized according to a very specific hierarchy based on the evolutionary theory that women select their partners according to the "looks, money, and status theory" (LMS theory) [6]. Indeed, women choose their partners according to short-term and long-term preferences, from which "cad" and "dad" sexual strategies evolved [7,8]. But, according to this theory, physical attractiveness (especially the signs of "good health," e.g. ...
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... Future research should examine whether the same motivations drive endogamy in short-term romantic relationships. Such research should consider that men tend to prefer more short-term mating opportunities, have lower standards for short-term mates, and display a greater preference for sexual variety (e.g., Buss & Schmitt, 1993;Hughes et al., 2021), which may result in reduced associative strength of many of the motivational components, including those rooted in prejudice, in a short-term mating context. In contrast, women's preferences for short-term and long-term relationships may be similarly associated with the endogamous motivational components. ...
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... Similar to Penke and Asendorpf (2008), we found gender differences in the I-SOI-R. Men display higher levels of unrestricted sociosexuality, a result that is consistent with evolutionary accounts of gender differences in mating strategies (Al-Shawaf et al., 2018;Buss & Schmitt, 1993). The effect is particularly pronounced (medium-to-large) for the Sociosexual Desire component, coherently with the previous literature concerning this facet of sexual behavior (Barrada et al., 2018;Penke & Asendorpf, 2008). ...
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... 6 Sexual desire can be described as when an individual thinks of or fantasizes about sexual behavior or is motivated to engage in sexual behavior regardless of immediate arousal. 7 These 2 terms are present in 2 different disorders in the DSM-5-TR. 1 Women with low desire experience a lack or decrease in sexual fantasies, which could cause distress. ...
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